Recently I heard the loss of my friends husband.I had a sinking feeling within me.I could not imagine someone going thro the loss of your loved one..I had flashes of images in front of me.I imagined what it would be like for my friend..I had images of movie clips from P.S.I love you and thought of my friend going thro a similar phase like the movie.I know it sounds bad to think about a movie while someone is going thro such pain.Then I realized that as humans we connect to things.we connect to our experiences.May be my closest was the movie I had witnessed.But then I thought of my dad and my friend Firaz,I was there too.I had lost someone close to me.I did not think about them cause It would bring back memories and I would relate to my loss of my loved ones...
Then I wondered if they all met in heaven.I prayed to dad to take care of my friend...
I knew, I understood the strength we gather at someone's lose.It's not that day of pain,its the life we carry on holding those memories, so close to let that place ever be healed or replaced...
Time is a healer but sometimes those memories can bring us to life....
The loss is irreplaceable.It made me realize What we leave behind is irreplaceable.
