Relationships!!Often most discussed and most stressful part of a human life.Almost all the time wen we are at a cafe or club we see women and Men discuss relationships.Why is it that after many century's there is still no good answer for a good relationship?And how does love play a part in this confusing situations?So I did google on topic on love and relationship and space.After going thro a lot of articles on the net, I realized that those articles were from people around the world.I felt kinda relieved to be honest, to know that what I was going thro was normal and to know women and men around the world are pretty much the same.Then why is it so hard to solve this.Why do women have sick feeling in their stomach and loose their confidence when men take their space.Topics on men what draw them away from commitment was so similar to men who live in my country.It was almost like universe was talking to me as I was reading these articles.why do people around the world, men and women have similar insecurities and fear?
With all these articles out there and help offered I began to wonder why isnt a standard book about women and men.This way, as we are growing up and instead of reading fairytales and watching romantic movies we are educated about this human behaviour.May be understanding the basic character sketch of a man and women from the very beginning can help us to be prepared on what not to expect from something that isnt a part of them.
Then I began to look for reasons beyond logic.There are billions of people in the world and yet we connect only to few.We all are energies and vibrating at different frequencies.Most of the time we are attracted to a person in the beginning because of the vibration level they are at.And once they get to know each other and start liking each other,the insecurities and fear from our childhood or experiences surface back and couples begin to fight.we start vibrating at different frequencies and temporarily we connect when we patch up but it surfaces back again at different situation.
All these information made me realize that only when we are aware of our thoughts and can control our fear and insecurities, is when any relationship can work.
Over this phase is where love comes to play and truly tested.Only with love and care in your heart, one can understand the different phases, your partner is going thro.
Only if one can operate with love in their hearts, can any relationship work.This feeling of love is to be created by being aware of our mind that can manipulate any situation.The situation can be similar to those billion people who are going thro but how you fight your own fears and how much you can forgive and understand is where the peace in a relationship survives.
Ultimately Love is what all these billions of people around the world are trying to acquire by wanting to maintain a relationship.And like buddha preaches we all are being of love and its our natural form.
By Abhijatha Umesh
3 comments:
Sick feeling is due it lack of adaptability and willingness to agree or disagree.
Feelings are controlled by fluctuating levels of hormones ...... Google OXYTOCIN, DOPAMINE, etc. ..... the rest is fiction! :)
it makes no sense to write this comment now at this hour of crises but if you are there up some where..i just want you to know that its normal to have the sick feeling coz that's how the women's heart is made by the supreme divine, every women go through that sick feeling in her life and its just a normal phase of life.......i wish i had read this blog 5 days back..i am sure i would have reminded you how you stood by my side and convinced me to accept the sick feeling and move on to life and as you said..time heals you would have found peace too...why did you give up such a precious life for just nobody ??? For someone who never valued the commitment part of a true relationship ? was he worth dear? I don't know who he is, but if he is reading these lines i want him to know that its his loss that he could not see and understand the beauty of such a wonderful person who's smile was worth a million dollar! You think you are not responsible? sit, think and ask yourself have you done justice to her true emotions? You ...only you had the power to make her smile! laugh! love! but see what you gave her ? tears! darkness! lost path! and death! Touch your heart and ask your soul..did she deserve it ? Why men are so complex ? Why there is so much fuss about ...i need space thingy ?? when men will become a simple human being to understand and accept true emotion called LOVE ??
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